Peter Nicholls

 

 

HOW WELL-INTEGRATED IS YOUR LIFE AT WORK, HOME AND PLAY?

Try this Lifestyle Check. It isn’t a psych test or anything you should take too seriously. It’s simply a thought-starter on how your life is going so far, in relation to work, home and play.  Click here for printable copy

Some guidance notes…

  • Breaking life into categories of work, home and play is pretty broad. 
    • Work generally relates to paid employment and anything to do with work
    • Home can relate to the people you live with and your interaction with them, plus eating, sleeping, house maintenance, etc
    • Play covers virtually any discretionary activity or interest, usually enjoyable. It can be physical, intellectual, social, manual, community involvement, church, sport, whatever.
  • You can decide for yourself what each word or phrase means.
  • A tick indicates you feel reasonably happy with how the word/phrase relates to your life through (respectively) your work, home and play.
  • At the end, check through
    • the ticked boxes and think how you might want to build on your strengths
    • the un-ticked boxes. Perhaps a tick was inappropriate…or perhaps you felt a reluctance to tick it for a reason known only to you
LIFESTYLE FACTORS
Work Home

Play

Accomplishment, achievement

Adequate financial resources

Being part of social changes

Challenges

Communicating comfortably with others

Community involvement

Creativity

Delight in being alive

Developing my skills, abilities and talents

Dignity

Discipline

Discovering new things

Emotional energy

Enjoying meaningful pursuits

Expanding my knowledge

Feeling empowered

Feeling good about myself

Feeling secure

Feeling valued

Friendships

Fun

Good relationships with family

Good relationships with partner

Grabbing my opportunities

Gratitude

Harmony

Independence

Innovation

Keeping an eye on my health

Keeping in touch with other generations

Keeping my mind active

Keeping up with technology

Learning / education

Love

Maintain good personal image

Maximising use of my time and resources

Networks of connections with others

Opportunities for calm, quiet and peace

Passionate interests

Peer support

Perfection (eg of details)

Personal growth and development

Physical energy

Positive attitude

Punctuality

Recognition / status

Resourcefulness

Safety

Self confidence

Self esteem

Self reliance

Sense of freedom

Sense of purpose

Sense of self worth

Social opportunities

Spiritual energy

Stability

Taking care of me / time for me

Time spent on reflective thinking

Time with partner/children/important others

Trust

Wisdom / intuition

 

 

 

The yin yang logo reflects the need for:

  • a constant supply of renewable energy ‘in’ to replace the increasingly rapid burning of energy ‘out’ 
  • “complementary opposites” of mutually-energising interests in work and personal life.